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The Value of Networking
Michael
Rinaldi
If there is one
facet of being in business that often times gets overlooked,
under-utilized, or is totally blown, it's
networking.
definitions:
- Expanding one's
social network or sphere of influence by initiating
mutually advantageous new relationships with
people.
- Connecting with
people of like interests for the purpose of
uncovering opportunities, identifying landmines and
learning of best practices.
- Meeting people who
can be of help to you and being a help to
them.
- Process of finding
out about potential clients from friends, business
contacts, co-workers, acquaintances, and fellow
members in professional and civic
organizations
It's different than socializing. Much different. Socializing
is the equivalent to taking a passenger seat at a social
function and thoughtlessly or carelessly abdicating the taking
time to make oneself known, gather information, meet important
people, forge relationships, promote one's services, etc. to
passe dialogue and thinking you're expanding your sphere of
influence or doing something for your business.
Far too often, I believe, most people in business overlook
that the word "work" is in networking. They also fail to
appreciate what can happen as a result of persistent networking
with intention.
I was never really a social person in the respect that I
needed to be popular for the sake of being popular or that I
had to be "in" with certain crowds. I naturally felt as though
I should hang with whomever I either felt comfortable with or I
resonated with. To do otherwise, I thought was simply showing
affinity for someone under false pretenses (i.e. being fake). I
like people, but in general, had failed to appreciate the value
of networking until later in life, although my father was an
absolute master of it.
I'll explain why people fail at this incredibly useful
function, but first an incredible story to highlight one of my
points.
Continue to next page.
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